Single VS Married essay

I just want to write about this topic because I was talking about single and married with my friends while having dinner.

Do you think which one is better 'Single or Married?' Everyone in the world think about this. Some people like to stay alone while some do not. Which way is better? This essay will examine these two choices by looking at each in terms of way of life, financial issues and conflicts.

First, let's talk about the way of life. For single people, many of them feel that they have freedom and have no commitment. They can do anything or go anywhere they want with no worry because they do not have any responsibilities to anyone. In some countries, if people have family, they can not go out alone or hang out with their friends whenever they want. they have to look after their family or have to take everyone in their family with which means no freedom. On  the other hand, some people like to be part of a couple because they do not want to be alone.  They want to have someone to go everywhere with so they won’t feel lonely.  Many people who want to be married say that they feel good to have someone to care about and they feel better to know that someone is thinking and caring about them.

Second, there is a financial issue. For single people, there is clear about their financial because they don’t have to share with others.  Some people think a lot about their earning.  To earn money is hard so they want to use it as they choose.  Single people don’t have to let others use their money so they can use all of money they earn. Sometimes they will have more money left to deposit for a good future. In contrast for married people, They don’t have to worry too much when they are needed money because others can help.  Some family share their earnings with each other.  If one needs money in a hurry, they can use the others and don’t have to pay it back.

Finally, let's look at a conflict situation. Single people wants to solve problem by themselves. There is a proverb in Thailand that say, "Many people, many problems." It means that if you have one problem but there are many people who wants to solve it, the bigger problem occur. Everybody has their own way to solve the problem. If they can not agree, they argue and perhaps create even more problems. For the couples, they say it is better to have someone when needed. There is a proverb that says, “Two heads are better than one.”  If they have problems, there are two people to think or find the way out because some problems are hard to resolve by oneself.  And there is a sentence that says, “Family means nobody gets left or behind.”  If they have a problem, their partner or family will stay beside to help them; they won’t let you stay alone when you need some help.

This essay has attempted an overview of two ways, single versus married, and has look at financial issues and the way they remedy problems.  In conclusion, it is really hard to say which way is better. It depends on the individual thought.  Each of them has different advantages.  So, you can think about it.  Which way is better for you.  Think carefully!  It’s your life.